tmrToday is my ikka’s birthday. His first birthday after we met. Wanted to make it really special and wanted to wish him right at 12.00.

I tried his phone at 11.30, he didn’t take. He was busy and I knew it. So then tried again at 11.55.

He still wasn’t taking the phone. I thought he slept, so kept on calling. He cut the phone :( tried 2- 3 times more 

Finally at 11.58 he called back. furious as a lion .. grrrrrr…… was really angry at me for me having called constantly to the phone inspite of he cutting the call.Got angry at me for having called constantly :(

It was 11.59.. time was moving very slowly. Its like that usually when I get scolding .. hehe :D

ah.. finally it became 12.00 & I wished him “HAPPY BIRTHDAY”… he was silent. didn’t say anything. After some time said “THANKS”. Didn’t say anything after that..

Then came down to earth ;) to his love as my sweet hubby…

Said a sorry for having scolded me and gave me a sweet kiss.. :)

a kiss thru phone itself is so sweet..

HMm.. 31 more days to get a real kiss from my handsome.. waiting for it..

Last 2 days I was the one ruling the kitchen. Umma (mom) told me a good concept and practice last day. Dont know how many of you are following this, but I think its a grea way to thank God Almighty for proviidng us with food.

While measuring rice for lunch, she asked me to take 1 handful of rice and put it in another cover. This was for the poor. Everyday we eat food and we have to thank God for filling our stomach.

I asked her the reason coz many times before also I had measured rice but never did it. She explained that she forgot to tell me before, but asked e to do it whenever I measure rice.

This seemed a great thing to me. “Service to Man is Service to God” A right implication of the saying.

Today I made a visit to college to a get a few certificates which I was supposed to take 1 year back :D ..

Reminiscing each and every moment in my college.. There was no one in the campus as it was a holiday. just the staff

Still I could feel the clatter of my college. Every place I went, I cherished my memories..

The trees under which we used to sit and chat  just because we had nothing else to do and we loved each others company. The pineapple garden from where we used to steal pineapples.. the corridors which used to be our favorite place, the steps we sat…… everything..

Ellam oru kinavu pole…
Aa nimishangal iniyum jeevikkan kazhiniruvenkkil enn manasil oru kothi..
Kannukal nyan ariyathe thanne nirannu…
Aaa sandoshangalum sangadangalum iniyum jeevikkan kazhinirunenkkil..

Ini orikkalum thirich kittatha aa ponn nimishangal
Ormayil ennum kaathu sookshikkum..
Aaa nimishangal onn koodi jeevikkanamenn thonumbol..
Ormayil ninnum mutti unarthum..

aa kaliyum chiriyum…
snehikkanum….
koode chirikkanum karayanum..
kure suhruthukkal..

ellam oru kinave pole thonnuthu.. oru nalla kinavu

Got a big packet on 30th of April. Ikka had told me that he is sending some letter and to call him before I open .

The courier person called up to enquire the place. I felt as if the man took too long a time to reach.. 1st time he is sending something via courier.

And to my surprise, it wasn’t a small packet. I took the packet , signed it. I was rather surprised to see the packet.  Tried calling ikka, but OH NO!! he was not taking the phone. Tried for about half an hour, no use. Finally called up home and asked Chettathi (Rehana Itha) if my hubby dear had taken the phone. he had taken the phone. I requested Rehanatha to please-call up ikka’s office and ask him to take the phone.

Then I got his phone.I was so restless till then coz he had asked me not to open the packet unless I call him. I was feeling my hand through the packet and was imaging to myself what it will be. Finally I opened it.

A blue and magenta salwar set. That was the first thing that I saw. My ikka has a great sense of color :) he has chosen the best for his sweet heart :D

That was not all. More to reveal. A pair of diamond ear rings, very cute one.

There was a Kashmiri shawl – a black and maroon one. It is very soft.

The gift I liked the most was a mirror he had sent. The mirror is too good. I just loved it. I love to see my face in it.. You wanna see it?

Mirror Gifted By My Ikka, Gift for Reshma, Reshm Abdul, Gift by Saifudeen A Hameed

 The shawl of the salwar my ikka sent….

Salwar shawl gift,Reshma's salwar from saif, Saif's gift, Saifudeen A Hameed's gift

have a look at the earing..

Reshma’s Diamond Earing gifted by saif, Gift by Reshma's Fiance, Gift from my ikka

Ernakulam town, the most happening place in Kerala.. And whats happening here these days?POWER CUT.. EVERYDAY 

It’s actually really disgusting – mosquitoes and on top of that-the heat. It’s damn hot here.Everyday the electricity goes off atleast for an hour. Somedays there is no power all night.. OH MY GOD!!!

It is very difficult on those days with mosquitoes buzzing around your ears. Its not for 2 or 3 hours, its like- whole night.

My sister’s baby, poor one, he finds it very difficult to sleep.

What problem does the government have? All of them will be sleeping peacefully in their bungalows with cooling AC’s . Who is bothered of the citizens?

I work online, freelancing from home. I loose a lot of money each day due to this electricity unavailability.

DISGUSTING GOVERNMENT

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Gone are the days when April Fools Day used to be fun.. Today I even forgot that it was April Fool’s Day.

The incident which comes to my mind on this day takes me back to my vacation after my 12h Board exams.

I was at Trivandrum, my native place. I was having a sound sleep and my sister (her name is Rizvana) and my aunty (Shameela Shahul) hustly woke me up from sleep saying that the 12th board exams Physics answer sheets have been destroyed on fire. I actually forgot that it was April Fool’ day. But still I said to them “ചുമ്മ ഇരിക്കൊന്ന്…. എനിക്ക് ഉറങനം.. കളിപിക്കാതെ പോ ” (I want to sleep leave me please)

But i still forgot that it was april fool’s day. They were saying it so seriusly and said that it was given the newspaper. Actually I had written my Physics paper very badly. So I got a bit excited and hurriedly opened the newspaper to find that I have been fooled.  They had kept a paper written “APRIL FOOL” inside the news paper.. hehe.. Clean bowled.. :D

I had earlier written in my blog about Mr Imthiaz Rafiq, the core programmer of Flip Media.(A Chat With the Core Programmer of Flip media


You might be waiting to read something about SEO.. But sorry.. tats not the matter here..last day I had a chat with him…

Ah ya before that take a look at this…. http://saiftvm.blogspot.com/2007/03/we-dont-smoke.html

The guy in red shirt is Imtiaz (I call him Imthi bhai)… hehe and the pic was actually edited by my fiance.. Imthi bhai just a cigaratte in his mouth.. ;)

But he is a chain smoker… had a chat with him last day about this…He smokes around 16- 17 cigs daily..  A cig per every 2 or 3 hours… I was rather shocked to hear this.

I asked him to reduce his smoking, and he was like “will do it when my wife says so”. This fellow Imthi bhai is Just Impossible.

We had a good argument on this. I was rather wondering why such educated, literate and intelligent people go for cigs to reduce their tension.

He says that he goes for a smoke when he gets bored up. Suggested him to have some fresh juice, tender cocunt or may be a coffee. He need smoke with coffee. huh!!!

Smokes gives him a kick and helps him to calm down and concentrate on solution it seems. It actually has a toxic effect on your body. Actually cigarette has nicotine which is a stimulant. It has an effect same as that of cocaine and heroin has on the nervous system. it elevates the levels of dopamine in the brain and thus gives pleasure and activeness which is very short lived.

You want to what he said “whether you smoke or not you will die one day.so you can smoke”.”for you spending on cig is waste. For me spending on Jewels is waste. ” Do you feel that was a right comparison? Jewel is an asset. Cigaratte is never an asset.

This was his another out of the way reasoning “sometime people have to be stupid to enjoy .If you question too much and reason out too much you cannot live your life.”

As I am biology student i told him another matter of fact that, smoking with time will make  a person impotent and also increases the risk of having malformed offsprings. You wanna know what was his comment to that? ” Then the population of our country would have been half”.

But finally he came down from the debate. He knows it is bad. Actulaly every smoker knows it is bad to smoke. Smoking is just like buying illness.

But I have read some where that smoking changes the way the food tastes for a smoker and makes it less edible. Thus the smoker looses interest in food and looses weight. I have seen it true in many cases, by not in case of Imthi Bhai  ;)  

Wanted to give a Valentines Day surprise or my fiance. Tragedy strikes and the surprise ended up as a tragedy..

I had bought a card (nothin much ok). wanted to send it on time.. so was waiting for it to be. waited for the postman and 1st tragedy he didnt come. now searchng for a stamp.. just couldnt find it…

tried sending a card online by paying through paypal.. next tragedy.. my paypal account was just cleared the previous day and no balance in my account. Suddenly some ray of light showed up an yippiee .. I got a 5$ in my account from payperpost.

then started searchin for to send through online.. but dont know…. again tragedy and I couldnt find a site that sends though online with paypal without creadt card verification.

Finally asked my cousin Adhib to get a stamp. He searched the whole area and came back with a 5 rs stamp which did not seem to be a stamp. i was confused after seeing the stamp.. but has bought it for 5 Rs . So stuck the stamp on the car. And my cousin Aji went with the card to post it. … Phew thought it was done.. nope.. there comes adhib back and with teh crad.. the card wa snot getting into the postbox.. oh man.. i was going mad. was feeling i should not have bought the card … huh.. asked him to fold it somehow and post it

But then still I doubted the stamp..was not confident of its genuinity. also the card wont reach on 14th.. so I wen tonline agian and was searching for a card to send on 14th itself. .. found a site and sent a card for 2$ nd payed through paypal..

here comes the major flop of the scene.. 14thover-no word from my fiance.. 15th also ovr still no word. dam shit 16th over.. still nothing.. finally on 17th my ikka called up and asked if i had sent a card. i thought he had got it (i hadnt written my name in it) and said asked why.he said the postman had bought a card and ikka was not at home.he said something and took it back and asked him to collect from the post office. i asked him what and told him I had sent the card.. Flopppppp

here comes the shot of the tragedy.. the stamp was a fake one and the post man had come home given some scoldings and took the post back..

The biggest surprise I got ever. :( And also a bit of scolding from my ikka…. :( :( :(  

had taken the card, the first card for ym love and wow a wonderul flop.. feel like going over to that shop from where i got the stamp and givig him nice,….

 Huh.. i shud have seen that before sending.. me a big fool.. but hey u poepe who reading this now.. do be careful before you buy a stamp and esp careful before u send it..

wonderful surprise for me.

Such a cuddly sweet pie… Went to see the baby today morning itself.. could not wait to see her.. she goes just for her father..

Ha by the way my friends name is Noorie and her hubby’s name is Shajnavas. She has named the baby Inara. Actually she had decided the name before itself…

went with my friend Rehana to the hospital.. hw i love to be with my friends.. rally miss those days at college. How we used to chat away just for the sake it. mmmm.. i really miss all that..

“A Delhi teenage girl has fallen victim to the Orkut mischief-makers, who have posted a profile on the web page, describing her as a ’sex teacher’.

The girl’s profile also has obscene photographs and contact details such as her home address and telephone numbers. The matter came to fore after the girl’s family started receiving vulgar calls and her father approached the Cyber Cell of Delhi Police’s Economic Offences Wing.

 A fortnight back when two strangers knocked at their door and told them the girl had invited them for sex through Internet, they added. The Delhi police has said registered a case and launched investigations into the matter.

According to the complaint, the teenager’s family received the first call almost a month back where the caller wanted to speak to her. Similar calls poured in later, the police said, adding that all the callers referred to Orkut.”

 From: http://www.ibnlive.com/news/orkut-trouble-delhi-teenage-girl-made-sex-teacher/top/32945-3.html

 

Who do you think is actually to be blamed? Orkut, The mischief maker or the photo owner?

What can orkut do in that some ******** do such sick things on the internet.. Banning orkut is ofcourse not a soultion to this.Finding out the mischief makers everytime is also not quite practical.. Cause once the harm is done.. it is done.. you can’t take it back….

 I feel its better prevention than cure.. What say? Orkut is not the right place for females to put up their pic.. What do you think?